Myth Busting: Estate Planning is Only About Who Gets My Stuff

When most people hear the term “estate planning,” they immediately think of wills and inheritances—essentially, deciding who gets what after they’re gone. While that’s certainly a part of the process, this common perception is only the tip of the iceberg.

We often hear folks say, “I don’t have much, so I don’t need an estate plan,” or “I just want to make sure my kids split everything evenly.” But in California, a well-crafted estate plan does far more than just divide your belongings. In fact, focusing only on “who gets your stuff” can leave critical gaps—especially when it comes to protecting your wishes, your health, and your family.

Let’s bust that myth and look at what estate planning really covers.

1. Estate Planning Protects You During Your Lifetime

One of the most overlooked aspects of estate planning is what happens if you become incapacitated. Who will pay your bills, make healthcare decisions as you want, or access important accounts?

A comprehensive California estate plan should include:

  • Financial Power of Attorney: Designates someone to handle your finances if you become seriously ill or injured.
  • Advance Health Care Directive and HIPAA Authorization: Appoints someone to make medical decisions, outlines your healthcare preferences and allows your trusted agents to speak with your medical providers.

Without these documents in place, your loved ones may have to petition the court for conservatorship—a time-consuming, expensive, and public process that can be easily avoided.

2. It Can Protect Minor Children (and Pets!)

If you have children under 18, estate planning allows you to legally nominate a guardian—someone you trust to raise them if something happens to you. Without this, the decision will be left to a judge, and your children may be placed in the care of someone you wouldn’t have chosen.

You can also create trusts that specify how and when your children inherit assets, preventing them from receiving a large lump sum at age 18. And yes—even beloved pets can be included in your plan.

3. It Helps Avoid California Probate Court

California probate is notoriously slow, expensive, and public. Even modest estates can take 12–18 months to administer through court, with legal fees eating away at what’s left behind.

A properly funded revocable living trust can avoid probate entirely, allowing your assets to be transferred privately and efficiently to your beneficiaries. For many families, avoiding the probate process is reason enough to have a comprehensive plan in place.

4. It Prevents Family Conflict

When you leave behind clear instructions—not just about your assets, but about your healthcare preferences, your final wishes, and your intentions—it dramatically reduces the risk of family disputes. You get to maintain control, even when you’re no longer able to speak for yourself.

Estate planning isn’t just about dollars and deeds; it’s about peace of mind, clarity, and reducing stress for your loved ones.

 

Final Thoughts: Estate Planning is About More Than “Stuff”

At Herbert Law Office, we help families design estate plans that do more than just divide property. Whether you’re young or retired, a homeowner or renter, a parent or pet-owner—you deserve a plan that protects your voice, your values, and the people you love.

It’s not about how much you have. It’s about making sure what matters is protected.

 

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We’d love to help you build a plan that goes beyond “who gets what.” Call us today at (619) 273-9007 to schedule your free consultation.